Why are Indian men cheap - letching, staring, lewd comments and molesting also called CREEP KINGS

Most International women find attitude of Indian men to be painstakingly nightmarish and quite unfamiliar, most women are stared at from top to bottom and then have to listen to dowdy remarks about their moral behaviour. Indian men have known to have fascination for white skin and has used all methods possible to attract foreign women.

Foreigners travellling to small cities such as Chandigarh, Pune, Bhopal find themselves better than women travelling to loud and big cities such as Delhi, Mumbai, Kolkatta. As if men seem to get worse after getting educated in the best schools the country has. The whole dimension on which the cultural integrity stands is being challenged. On one side there is the Indian way which ensures the woman are reserved and on the other side is hollywood which is providing another dimension to the Indian thought process. What we get out of this is a pot puree of entailed ideas and ideologies that are causing the country to become nomadic and barbaric.

Indian culture is going through a dramatic shift - its getting to view the western culture at the same time its not leaving its roots. What we get is a complicated mind of a unemployed, cheaply employment Indian man roaming around on the road looking for any kind of opportunities.

Now this becomes increasingly scary in crime infested lawless areas such as Badaun, other interiors of Uttar Pradesh and Bihar. These states are the most populated parts of our overpopulated country. With Every family living in scantily bricked homes  holding ten to eleven family members, One creates perfect recipe for disaster.

One also needs to understand that money is a very big concern in the archaic backward villages.Villagers have nothing to do and drugs is becoming a favoured pastime for most people. Infact Indian villagers are growing cannabis in their backyards and affecting the whole generation.

With Internet and Latest gismos reaching these tiny quaint villages , it  is giving unrelentless power and corruption new wings to reach such people and cause further deterioration of the situation in towns surrounding the villages. A lot of villagers are selling there land and blowing away the money of cars, parties and luxury goods. Once such funds dry up , they move to cities in search for work and are only employed at the lowest level of the job table leading to a mismatch from there previous lifestyle to one of drudgery and hard work.

This is the imbalance that is bringing crime to the metropolitan cities of India, with porous borders, easier access and lawlessness one gets enough opportunity to spoil the peace of this ancient country.

One can only advice discretion, control and some patience to have a memorable time in this country India.

8 youth rape woman, upload video on Facebook

 20-year-old woman filed a police complaint against eight youth on Tuesday for raping her a year ago and later, uploading her video on a social networking site. 

The woman said she had kept quiet all this time fearing that the accused would upload the video on the internet and use it to malign her reputation. 

She said she approached police when she saw that the video was uploaded on Facebook. Four of the eight accused were arrested on Tuesday, while a manhunt has been launched to nab the rest, SSP HN Singh said.

"As per the woman's complaint, she had gone for lunch with a friend in August last year. Near Basadha village, four youth had joined them. They had taken her to a secluded place where three more youth were present. It was there that she was gang-raped and her video was made," Singh said. The accused had threatened the woman with dire consequences if she told anyone about the incident. 

At that time, the rape survivor had not complained to police fearing that the video might be used against her. "However, the woman approached us when she saw that the clip had been put up on Facebook," he said. 

Police said a case has been registered under the IPC and IT Act against the eight accused —Rashid, Wasik, Abdul Rehman, Monu, Rahul, Salau, Abul and Shokan. 

source: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/lucknow/8-youth-rape-woman-upload-video-on-Facebook/articleshow/37219871.cms

Bouncers life in Delhi NCR - DRINKS, FOOD and EVE TEASING

A tall guy with duplicate diamond studded ear and black clothes hinting to look like a uniform. A Bouncer is delhi can easily be helpful and at the same time be equally destructive . Bouncers are all around you - pubs, bars, high end restaurants, farm houses, concerts, events. Do you feel safe?

A typical bouncer is not scared of the consequences that may unfold due to his actions. Bouncers ae already accustomed to visiting police stations and have a general sense of how to handle police, This is what makes them notorious. They have groupism and strong sense of beer bonding that creates a feeling of caring for each other. Bouncers always drink beer, I mean always, there is not one event during which I have not seen these bouncers collect for beer post the event.

Most bouncers have turned themselves to security services because they have a hefty built, understood quick money and had the flair to handle fights, skirmishes.

Most bouncers look Rogue and dangerous , this is the reason that people do not feel safe around them. Bouncers will continue to provide protection but everything they do comes at a price , they will eve-tease women when alone, at times steal small articles such as bike mirrors, cycles, canteen food items, personal belongings lying idle. This makes the situation precarious for the company hiring them for duty.

The other side of the problem is there need to get aggressive, bouncers pick up fights very easily and at times such fights end in dire consequences. A Bouncers day starts at 12 noon and ends at 4 a.m in the morning after the pub closes down and they have gulped there alcohol.

One of the expectations from every bouncer is that he is tall, muscular and stand tall. The problem arises when the same hefty and muscular bouncer is unable to provide adequate security when requires.

Bouncers come from village backgrounds and have been corrupted by constant lure of money, drugs, muscular strength and power that comes with the duty( managing entry / exit at the gates of an event)

Delhi NCR region becomes extremely notorious for security concerns as the same bouncers can be trouble as well. Many events have very strict rules from allowing entry despite such rules we find that many hooligans do enter with alcohol, torch lights and trouble creating equipment. How does this happen when there is thorough checking at the gates and the security is managing frisking every entrant at the gates to ensure a quality event. Bouncers have a soft corner for their brethren and let their kind enter without any entry pass. The same person who would be vigilant and providing quality security will be the cause for trouble at the event.

Bouncers have to be trained and co--ordinated to avoid any unusual and unexpected threat. Bouncers are always into alcohol, Beer is something every bouncer will drink after the event. There have been 3 - 4 day events  despite which the bouncers have had drinks every day.

Most bouncers are not delhites and are living in small towns situated around Delhi borders particularly Haryana. This creates further trouble as any bouncer who creates nuisance shall easily leave the state to avoid Delhi jurisdiction.

We should do complete confirmation before hiring bouncers and also maintain swift procedures to arrange for replacements in case of any unwarranted happenings.

Bouncer as a security is most useful for events to protect you from other vigilants who are bouncers off duty. Anybody intending to cause harm will most likely hire a bouncer or hire many bouncers depending upon the situation. This is the biggest difference between a Personal Security Officer and a Bouncer.

A personal security officer ( acronym PSO ) means an ex-army, ex-navy, ex-crpf, ex- nsg. This makes a world of difference in the attitude and behaviour of a security officer. Firstly, he is educated and will  act much more professionally than a civilian bouncer. Secondly, any PSO will we married and settled because of his age which will be more than 35 years. This is due to this time spent in ARMY adds to his age. Whereas a Bouncer can be anybody from 20-30 years of age without any qualification, degree, experience or security training.


This fundamental difference decides what should one hire / employ for your security purposes.

Decoding Indian Country side and understanding safety of foreigners in India

Badaun Rape Case is being talked about everywhere around the world. Its a mark of stain for the image India has portrayed to the International world. India looks ancient and barbaric to the outside world and even as a Indian living in a metropolitan city the new generation feels appalled at the turn of events that have taken place. Every foreigner you speak to talks about their safety and concerns regarding female travellers. India has  more than one million foreigners settled all around and more expats are flocking to world class cities such as Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chandigarh etc.

Foreigners are safe in  cities as long as they don't venture at 2 in the morning wearing party clothes, but doesn't this apply to every city in the world. Such cases have been reported around the world.

But how does one understand rural India. How does one analyse travel plans to the countryside in India. Well first of all the rural India is not developed at all. All one can see is farms, farms and farms with sight of cattle here and there. Most rural villages are growing weed in there backyards and durex survey reports villagers to be more promiscuous than city dwellers that are as International as any other place in the world.


Villages in India can be divided based on the area and prosperity. Punjab which is in north India is the fertile land of India and has luxury cars all around the state thanks to the rich farmers living life to the fullest. Uttar Pradesh, which is the largest state in India despite bifurcation, giving India another state called Uttrakand. This is the problem land of the country. The population of Uttar Pradesh ( 207.6 million )is more than the combined population of Germany and France and is higher than many many other countries around the world.  Taj Mahal , Agra is also in Uttar Pradesh and so is the village where shocking rape happened - Badaun.

The moment you leave the luxury state road of Delhi connecting to Agra you realise the world has become a zoo. Food Dwellers, Cows, Tractors,  Colorful clothes pink, yellow, blue- women smoking bidhis ( India Bettle Leaf Cigratte) , Men squatting and sitting here , there everywhere. IT IS A CONUNDRUM. And then you notice that you as a foreigner are being noticed like a celebrity and everyone is staring at you. This is moment you feel unsafe about the surroundings and suddenly want to cover yourself up or slip down and hide in the boot of the car.

Uttar Pradesh is populated, unorganised and chaotic. One gets surprised at how the state survives. Uttar Pradesh can easily nauseate you and also give stomach troubles. Care and Caution are the most important words for any foreigner visiting Uttar Pradesh. We feel frustrated when we visit Uttar Pradesh and feel ashamed of the state of affairs in the city.

For safety foreigners take a bodyguard or a bouncer when travelling to Taj Mahal or other cities in Uttar Pradesh such as Lucknow, Varanasi,Kanpur, Allahabad, Ghaziabad, Noida .



We sincerely advice to do complete research about the living conditions and the safety mechanisms for foreigners in the area visited by you in India, particularly country side areas like Badaun and states like Uttar Pradesh

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Rape and Why India should be scared ?

What happened in Baduan, Uttar Pradesh, South Mumbai, Maharashtra or New Delhi, Delhi and many many more cases all around India in the last short span of 24 months is not something that gave anybody anything, leave alone pleasure, their was not pleasure involved. Rape is not a form of pleasure for any party - the rapist or the victim. Rape is display of vulgar power of one human being on another. it is the lowest form of exploitation that can be employed on any individual whatsoever.

Rape causes harm to nobody but the victim, India is a very slow country and we do not intend to learn from our experiences. Anyway , what is there to learn from this, according to the mentality India has population to worry about and hanging two women post rape will not cause any harm to the country , its countrymen or its International image. This is the biggest misconception. Women from around the world have strongly and firmly made up their minds to avoid India and even in case they wish to visit the so called exotic India they will have to convince many members of their family before they can get an opportunity to travel as a tourist to India.

Foreigners are scared after reading about what happens to India women on a day to day basis should provide a good anomaly for them to change their travel destination.

India is growing and changing fast but it is not changing culturally and not professing as a society, the mix of International culture with the concoction of equipment available to men - cars, guns, easy pleasures, the whole dynamic of the country is changing. Everyone is scared because if rape is exploitation then more cases are bound to happen in india because of increasing population and  steep rise in number of people below poverty line. Exploitation continue the uphill journey carrying with it the lives and mental serenity of millions of India women. A rape is a rape and no way be discounted in grounds of area, backwardness, caste or religion. Using the work "rape" cause the reader to think what does the writer want to display.

Tough Times lay ahead and there is no reason this will change, India is male dominated and the current government belongs to the same fabric, condemn the accused and let the system continue to function as long as it does not stop our means of survival or should I say - Enjoyment.

What can one do to improve the security available to foreigners in India:-


1) DO NOT VISIT UNKNOWN PLACES ( NOT MENTIONED ON GOOGLE )

2) DO NOT GO STROLLING ANYWHERE AT NIGHT

3) NEVER TRUST ANY MAN ON ANY ADVICE IN INDIA

4) ALWAYS LET SOMEONE TRUSTWORTHY KNOW OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS

5) DO NOT EAT FROM UNKNOWN, UNTESTED EATERIES

6) DO NOT SIT ALONE IN ANY CAR / SCOOTER / BIKE / TRACTOR

7) NEVER DRINK ANYTHING OUTSIDE WITH ANY STRANGER

8) IN CASE YOU HAVE TO TRAVEL TO INACCESSIBLE PLACE - HIRE A BODYGUARD

9) NEVER SLEEP IN ANYBODY'S HOUSE TILL YOU TOTALLY KNOW THEM FROM BEFORE

10) ALWAYS TRUST YOUR SIXTH SENSE AND NEVER GIVE IN TO ANY DEMANDS

WHEN IN TROUBLE - USE YOU LUNG POWER AND SHOUT LIKE NEVER BEFORE.


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Rising Rape Cases in Uttar Pradesh, India and around other parts of the country

It just does not strike you, it never strikes you until it actually blows you away. This is how the Indians consider rape happening in their backyards. We think that rape somewhere in India does not concern us and should not affect my daughters, sisters, female members of immediate circles. We continue to presume and mirage our thoughts that the women rape belonged to a very small circle, village or a very ancient poor locality in India and such rapes cannot affect us in any way possible.

Its sad that women have to fight for something they should be given without a thought - Freedom and Space to Live

Let us actually emphasise and understand what is happening around us. Every women takes the same set of precautions as you have done. We continue to allude ourselves that by learning from the mistakes of previous rape cases and taking precautions necessary to prevent a situation created previously we are keeping our female members safe. This is not how the corrupt and the exploit work. If this was the case then there would have been no rape cases in India throughout 2014.

Women are not unsafe because of the set of precautions taken are not sufficient but because the mindset and the set of laws continue to have patriarchal dominance and shall affect the society as long as we don't teach our kids and change our laws to become more women centric.

The country is becoming more populated and the people are becoming more insecure in their on going quest of money and power. Foreigners travelling to India have been questioning are mentality and behaviour since long and it will not take any more rape cases for them to brand us as an unsafe country not to be visited for any purpose. Foreigners are hiring bodyguards and gunmen in India to maintain safety and privacy at all times.

What happens when such a barbaric act takes place? Does it end in somedays..... No, it leads to a catastrophic chain reaction which further damages the belief people have in our so called ancient country. The laws are old, the execution is thrifty and we as educated middle class are unaffected by the number of rapes that happen around the country.

To change this, to cause an impact on the male psyche one needs to fight for rights, fight for basic human emotional stance. We need to rise or else we shall continue to pay with sacrifice  of our daughters.

The rapes will continue in Baduan, Delhi, Mumbai and other parts of the country. What will you do to stop them from happening.