Women are becoming unsafe, even though we are more literate, better equipped to handle situations and more aware of the things to avoid But greed, population explosion, unemployment in youth is causing lawlessness in the society and the impact can be felt on how women today feel unsafe in todays world almost after sunset.
There are many things one can do to attempt safety and almost all such cases lead to safety as the attacker, stalker is caught unaware of such a reaction from the woman who is being followed, targeted.
1. PRESENCE OF MIND
Any situation that scares you should be handled with apt smartness, one does not stay calm but having some ideas of if and buts before hand can help the situation being handled better.
Understand the environment, always be ready to take the unaccepted step. Shouting, running, calling, behaving strongly, being unfettered etc.
Your first step is very crucial is setting your next steps. Always be AWARE.
2. NEVER TALK TO THE STALKER
Never in your dreams talk to the stalker, one should be prepared to be strong and unapologetic about the situation. You are not at wrong here. No amount of conversation would help in making the stalker, attacker change paths. Always look at alternative too talking with these heinous men.
3. WEAPONS THAT CAN HELP
Pepper Spray:
This is one thing that works and has helped many people around the world, pepper spray is lethal and helpful. The question is whether can help put it in the eyes of the follower. Smart, Swift action is required, not reaching the correct position to spray can be disastrous as the attacker will get an excuse to manhandle the victim.
Stun Gun :
This is advanced technique that does require some training so that one can use it quickly and precisely on the attacker. This is the surest way to ensure safety, if one knows how to use it and has the speed to use it.
Punches, Slaps - Self Defence Training Support:
Many times some punches are enough to dissuade the attacker out of his wits and retreat without causing any harm. A strong jab on the chin or a fist in the stomach to the attacker in an unexpected shot would be your saving moment. Be prepared and ready to attack and run in case you think that you have a brilliant shot.
4. AN IMPORTANT PHONE CALL - FAST DIAL
One should always have someone that can be called out to and that person already is aware of your path and destination. Just a 2 second call would be enough to let that person understand and act accordingly. One should always have back up ready. It does not take long to make such an application that can immediately be life saving, situate saving and have the best safety option for any woman alone at night. Remember no one will help except your family and close friends. Nobody wants you safe. Always have some form of protection up your sleeve.
5. THE POWER OF LOUD LOUD LOUD SHOUT
This is a very important weapon that should be used and if used, there should be no holes barred war call to the whole universe that you are threatened and require protection. Most times the attacker just wouldn't be able to comprehend such a situation and run away. Shout like there is no tomorrow, shout for the whole of the planet knows you require support. Such a shout in cities can be very helpful, there are hardly any secluded areas in cities anymore. The world also has some good souls and it would be a good thing to let such people if around know that you require help.
6. HIRE A BODYGUARD
In case your work requires you to travel late at night or work late nights then an option for a daily commuter would be to hire a bodyguard who can be present throughout your travel and ensure you are safe. When hiring a bodyguard, ensure that you are ready to pay a better amount than the market rate. The best bodyguards who are trustworthy and have the discipline would be slightly expensive in comparison to average, run of the mill bodyguards. Never compromise on your safety.
REMEMBER YOU ARE AS SAFE AS YOU MAKE YOURSELF TO BE.
There are many things one can do to attempt safety and almost all such cases lead to safety as the attacker, stalker is caught unaware of such a reaction from the woman who is being followed, targeted.
1. PRESENCE OF MIND
Any situation that scares you should be handled with apt smartness, one does not stay calm but having some ideas of if and buts before hand can help the situation being handled better.
Understand the environment, always be ready to take the unaccepted step. Shouting, running, calling, behaving strongly, being unfettered etc.
Your first step is very crucial is setting your next steps. Always be AWARE.
2. NEVER TALK TO THE STALKER
Never in your dreams talk to the stalker, one should be prepared to be strong and unapologetic about the situation. You are not at wrong here. No amount of conversation would help in making the stalker, attacker change paths. Always look at alternative too talking with these heinous men.
3. WEAPONS THAT CAN HELP
Pepper Spray:
This is one thing that works and has helped many people around the world, pepper spray is lethal and helpful. The question is whether can help put it in the eyes of the follower. Smart, Swift action is required, not reaching the correct position to spray can be disastrous as the attacker will get an excuse to manhandle the victim.
Stun Gun :
This is advanced technique that does require some training so that one can use it quickly and precisely on the attacker. This is the surest way to ensure safety, if one knows how to use it and has the speed to use it.
Punches, Slaps - Self Defence Training Support:
Many times some punches are enough to dissuade the attacker out of his wits and retreat without causing any harm. A strong jab on the chin or a fist in the stomach to the attacker in an unexpected shot would be your saving moment. Be prepared and ready to attack and run in case you think that you have a brilliant shot.
4. AN IMPORTANT PHONE CALL - FAST DIAL
One should always have someone that can be called out to and that person already is aware of your path and destination. Just a 2 second call would be enough to let that person understand and act accordingly. One should always have back up ready. It does not take long to make such an application that can immediately be life saving, situate saving and have the best safety option for any woman alone at night. Remember no one will help except your family and close friends. Nobody wants you safe. Always have some form of protection up your sleeve.
5. THE POWER OF LOUD LOUD LOUD SHOUT
This is a very important weapon that should be used and if used, there should be no holes barred war call to the whole universe that you are threatened and require protection. Most times the attacker just wouldn't be able to comprehend such a situation and run away. Shout like there is no tomorrow, shout for the whole of the planet knows you require support. Such a shout in cities can be very helpful, there are hardly any secluded areas in cities anymore. The world also has some good souls and it would be a good thing to let such people if around know that you require help.
6. HIRE A BODYGUARD
In case your work requires you to travel late at night or work late nights then an option for a daily commuter would be to hire a bodyguard who can be present throughout your travel and ensure you are safe. When hiring a bodyguard, ensure that you are ready to pay a better amount than the market rate. The best bodyguards who are trustworthy and have the discipline would be slightly expensive in comparison to average, run of the mill bodyguards. Never compromise on your safety.
REMEMBER YOU ARE AS SAFE AS YOU MAKE YOURSELF TO BE.
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